Life has a funny way of giving you what you need, when you need it sometimes. This morning I had a leadership call. You may remember me writing about the calls that set me down a better path for my life, these leadership calls are with that same group. After I participated in Core Strength Experience, I knew I needed to continue the momentum. I joined Michael Bernoff's leadership team, and therefore have the opportunity to participate in monthly leadership calls.
One of the quotes that Michael mentioned today was a twist on "if you always do what you've always have done, you'll always get what you always got." The change in the quote was, "if you always do what you've always done, you get nothing." The concept being that if you already have it, you don't get it again. So therefore if you keep doing the same thing, you no longer get anything more than what you got the first time. This makes it important to keep learning new things, and continually doing new things. I have to ask myself why I'm doing what I'm doing. Then ask if it is getting me what I want. If not, what can I do to change that?
The other piece that hit me today was that no matter what we do in life, we will always have challenges. Instead of just taking whatever challenges happen to come our way, why not choose a better challenge? I am sick and tired of the challenge I have with being the kind of person that has a consistent, healthy lifestyle. I've been back and forth with that challenge for a long time now. By doing the 12-week transformation challenge, I am working to become a person that lives a consistent, healthy lifestyle. I want to move past that challenge, and move to a new, more desirable challenge. When I get serious about my health and make it who I am, I no longer have to worry about the challenge of being a healthy person. I get to choose the next challenge instead of always dealing with the same one.
How empowering is that? I can choose to continue to have the same challenge for the rest of my life. OR I can choose to tackle this challenge, and then move on to the next one. This is true of fitness, finances, career, being a wife, motherhood, etc. If I'm going to have to face a challenge, it might as well be one I choose. It might as well be one that will get me what I want in my life!
All the best,
OkieGal
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Thursday, October 16, 2014
Monday, September 8, 2014
Let Your Light Shine
When I first picked the blog back up at the beginning of the transformation challenge, I mentioned a journey that I started back in January of 2013 (you can read that post here). I wanted to take at least another post to dive into that journey.
As I mentioned before, I had reached a point where I was sick and tired. It's kind of odd to say, because it's not like I was desperately unhappy. I'm married to my best friend, I have a nice home, live in a nice neighborhood, have a stable job, and am blessed. While I had those things, I couldn't help but feel like there had to be more. In reality, I knew, deep down, that I was (and still am) capable of so much more than I was giving in my life. I believe that it is possible to be content (defined as "in a state of peaceful happiness"), and still strive to better yourself.
For me, I felt like I was not doing all that I could with what God had given me. I was capable of being an even better wife, daughter, sister, friend, employee, co-worker, and servant of God. In short, I love who I am and what I have in my life, and I want to be even better for myself and those around me.
I had come to a place that I knew I wanted more for myself, yet I didn't know how to go about it. I joined that call (Call2Action), and something wonderful happened. I was reminded that within me is so much potential, and I have a lot to offer. I learned more about how my mind works, and with that knowledge I am able to better understand myself. Getting what you want from life doesn't have to be overly complicated. It's about making small shifts in your life, and taking action.
They reminded me the importance of letting my light shine. A shining light is not about being complacent or comfortable. To shine, "to be bright with reflected light; glisten; sparkle," or "to excel or be conspicuous." In order to shine, I need to stand out and show my capabilities.
It is about being thankful for who I am, and strive to progress in all areas of my life. It's about respecting myself, and knowing that hiding my potential does nothing for anyone. I am capable of so much physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
It has been so empowering to take ahold of my journey, make decisions, take action, and progress towards the life that I want for myself and my family. Especially now that I am a mother, I want my son (and any future children) to have an example in me of how to live a happy and fulfilled life being the best you can be.
All the best,
OkieGal
P.S. If you're interested, Michael Bernoff recently did a free call where he talked about what he called "The 90 Day Deal." It was a different way at looking at obtaining things that you want in your life. I found it to be a great call, especially as I prepared for this challenge. If you want to take a listen to it, check it out here.
As I mentioned before, I had reached a point where I was sick and tired. It's kind of odd to say, because it's not like I was desperately unhappy. I'm married to my best friend, I have a nice home, live in a nice neighborhood, have a stable job, and am blessed. While I had those things, I couldn't help but feel like there had to be more. In reality, I knew, deep down, that I was (and still am) capable of so much more than I was giving in my life. I believe that it is possible to be content (defined as "in a state of peaceful happiness"), and still strive to better yourself.
For me, I felt like I was not doing all that I could with what God had given me. I was capable of being an even better wife, daughter, sister, friend, employee, co-worker, and servant of God. In short, I love who I am and what I have in my life, and I want to be even better for myself and those around me.
I had come to a place that I knew I wanted more for myself, yet I didn't know how to go about it. I joined that call (Call2Action), and something wonderful happened. I was reminded that within me is so much potential, and I have a lot to offer. I learned more about how my mind works, and with that knowledge I am able to better understand myself. Getting what you want from life doesn't have to be overly complicated. It's about making small shifts in your life, and taking action.
They reminded me the importance of letting my light shine. A shining light is not about being complacent or comfortable. To shine, "to be bright with reflected light; glisten; sparkle," or "to excel or be conspicuous." In order to shine, I need to stand out and show my capabilities.
It is about being thankful for who I am, and strive to progress in all areas of my life. It's about respecting myself, and knowing that hiding my potential does nothing for anyone. I am capable of so much physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
It has been so empowering to take ahold of my journey, make decisions, take action, and progress towards the life that I want for myself and my family. Especially now that I am a mother, I want my son (and any future children) to have an example in me of how to live a happy and fulfilled life being the best you can be.
All the best,
OkieGal
P.S. If you're interested, Michael Bernoff recently did a free call where he talked about what he called "The 90 Day Deal." It was a different way at looking at obtaining things that you want in your life. I found it to be a great call, especially as I prepared for this challenge. If you want to take a listen to it, check it out here.
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Friday, August 29, 2014
I'm Going On An Adventure!
It has been quite awhile since my last post, and I now feel that the time is right for me to pick this whole blog thing up again. You may or may not be wondering why, either way I'll explain. While we don't have to start at the beginning, we can momentarily travel back to January 2013.
January 2013 is an interesting time point for me, because it was at this time that I realized that there had to be something better, something more that I was missing. I often thought about a scene from a favorite movie of mine, Beauty and the Beast. Belle has just refused Gaston's marriage proposal, and is singing about her feelings on the whole situation. She runs out into the field overlooking a beautiful, mountainous landscape singing, "I want adventure in the great wide somewhere, I want it more than I can tell."
Don't get me wrong, it's not that I was unhappy with life on the whole. I just knew that I am capable of so much more. My issue was that I didn't have a clue where to start. A friend of mine gifted a teleseminar to me. The course, Call 2 Action by Michael Bernoff, was exactly what I needed. I got the kick in the butt I needed to unlock what I already have inside of me. I took several more of his courses and have been to the Core Strength Experience event twice now, and would go again and again. The portion of my journey that occurred from January 2013 to now deserves a post all its own. I can sum it up by saying that I did a lot of soul searching and became more aware of my own wants and how, up to that point, my thought processes had been keeping me right where I was. Which was exactly where I was trying to move on from.
One of those thought processes is what brings me back to the blog today. I have decided to not only take part in a 12 week transformation challenge, but to also share my journey and transformation here.
This may not seem like a big deal to others. It is for me. I have been battling thoughts in my head that say "you're not good enough" or ask "what if you fail and everyone knows?" Not just in the fitness realm either, in a majority of my life.
Just last week I was talking to my husband about undertaking this transformation challenge. It was well past midnight as I sat in the middle of the living room floor with tears running down my cheeks as we spoke. I realized that I was afraid to say what I really wanted as my fitness goal. I struggled to even let it come across my lips. My mind was at war with itself. Why? What's so hard about admitting my desire, my goal? If I admit it, it means it is real. It means that someone else would know and if I didn't reach that goal they'd see that failure too. Really, who am I to want that goal anyway? As I had often been told in life, "you're so small, why are you worried about weight and fitness?" Were they right? Was I being ungrateful for what I have?
We talked through it, and I realized that I needed this challenge in more ways than I knew. It was going to have me admit to myself and those around me my fitness goal. What is it? I want a visibly strong, healthy, and fit physique. I want my hard work to be visible in the form of defined muscles and toned body. Some may still wonder why I'm worried about that, or think that I want it to look good in the eyes of others. What many don't realize is that while in the grand scheme of things I may not have had to deal with being at an extreme weight, it doesn't always take an extreme to cause an internal struggle. I have been heavier than I wanted to be, yet because of the way my body holds the fat (conveniently around my mid-section) I have been able to hide it under strategically purchased clothing styles. While those around me may not see it, I do when I look in the mirror. I have struggled with trying to lose weight and have had frustrations of no longer fitting in my favorite jeans. I've felt like a failure and been down on myself over my fitness level. I want to feel confident in my own skin, and I want to see evidence of the hard work.
I have decided to be honest with myself about what I really want and own it. In this journey, I feel that in order to truly tackle it, I must write it out. Not only to hold myself accountable, but to also tackle another struggle in my mind. That's a topic for another day...
I invite you to follow along, or even take on your own challenge. Step by step, one day at a time, I will walk this journey.
All the best,
OkieGal
January 2013 is an interesting time point for me, because it was at this time that I realized that there had to be something better, something more that I was missing. I often thought about a scene from a favorite movie of mine, Beauty and the Beast. Belle has just refused Gaston's marriage proposal, and is singing about her feelings on the whole situation. She runs out into the field overlooking a beautiful, mountainous landscape singing, "I want adventure in the great wide somewhere, I want it more than I can tell."
Don't get me wrong, it's not that I was unhappy with life on the whole. I just knew that I am capable of so much more. My issue was that I didn't have a clue where to start. A friend of mine gifted a teleseminar to me. The course, Call 2 Action by Michael Bernoff, was exactly what I needed. I got the kick in the butt I needed to unlock what I already have inside of me. I took several more of his courses and have been to the Core Strength Experience event twice now, and would go again and again. The portion of my journey that occurred from January 2013 to now deserves a post all its own. I can sum it up by saying that I did a lot of soul searching and became more aware of my own wants and how, up to that point, my thought processes had been keeping me right where I was. Which was exactly where I was trying to move on from.
One of those thought processes is what brings me back to the blog today. I have decided to not only take part in a 12 week transformation challenge, but to also share my journey and transformation here.
This may not seem like a big deal to others. It is for me. I have been battling thoughts in my head that say "you're not good enough" or ask "what if you fail and everyone knows?" Not just in the fitness realm either, in a majority of my life.
Just last week I was talking to my husband about undertaking this transformation challenge. It was well past midnight as I sat in the middle of the living room floor with tears running down my cheeks as we spoke. I realized that I was afraid to say what I really wanted as my fitness goal. I struggled to even let it come across my lips. My mind was at war with itself. Why? What's so hard about admitting my desire, my goal? If I admit it, it means it is real. It means that someone else would know and if I didn't reach that goal they'd see that failure too. Really, who am I to want that goal anyway? As I had often been told in life, "you're so small, why are you worried about weight and fitness?" Were they right? Was I being ungrateful for what I have?
We talked through it, and I realized that I needed this challenge in more ways than I knew. It was going to have me admit to myself and those around me my fitness goal. What is it? I want a visibly strong, healthy, and fit physique. I want my hard work to be visible in the form of defined muscles and toned body. Some may still wonder why I'm worried about that, or think that I want it to look good in the eyes of others. What many don't realize is that while in the grand scheme of things I may not have had to deal with being at an extreme weight, it doesn't always take an extreme to cause an internal struggle. I have been heavier than I wanted to be, yet because of the way my body holds the fat (conveniently around my mid-section) I have been able to hide it under strategically purchased clothing styles. While those around me may not see it, I do when I look in the mirror. I have struggled with trying to lose weight and have had frustrations of no longer fitting in my favorite jeans. I've felt like a failure and been down on myself over my fitness level. I want to feel confident in my own skin, and I want to see evidence of the hard work.
I have decided to be honest with myself about what I really want and own it. In this journey, I feel that in order to truly tackle it, I must write it out. Not only to hold myself accountable, but to also tackle another struggle in my mind. That's a topic for another day...
I invite you to follow along, or even take on your own challenge. Step by step, one day at a time, I will walk this journey.
All the best,
OkieGal
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